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DEMENTIA - Recognizing Agitation in your Loved One with Dementia and in YOU!

Emotions and Dementia

Agitation is a sense of restlessness and emotional discomfort that everyone experiences from time to time. The important thing is HOW YOU REACT TO THIS AGITATION.


1. Agitation can appear as irritability, aggression, impulsivity, or repetitive actions.

2. Agitation can create an atmosphere of confusion. Your loved one doesn't know where they are and doesn't listen to you.

3. Agitation can lead to the refusal of activity or resistance to moving to another area


Triggers for Agitation

Pain Frustration Anxiety

Grief Sadness Anger

Fatigue Schedule Change Overstimulation

Boredom Hunger Someone trespassing in their personal area

Fear Confusion Coughing

Loose dentures Noise


UPDATE MAY 2023

VALERIAN ROOT SUPPLEMENT

My Dad's doctor recommended Valerian root vitamin 600 mg -800 mg/ day.

It is the first thing that has helped my Dad calm down. He is settled and less stressed.

He still repeats and asks questions but his mood is much calmer and his attitude is softer. I bought liquid from Amazon. I also purchased capsules from Amazon. I wasn't paying close attention o the milligrams and I purchased 2400 mg capsules which are too strong for my dad. I reordered the 800 mg chewable. If you order Valerian root, check with your doctor for daily recommendations.






How to deal with Agitation

Create a chart to document when, where, and why your Loved One became agitated

Try to identify what agitated them

Put yourself in their shoes, how would you feel about specific situations

Do not take anything personally

Do not restrain someone who is agitated

Do not get closer to your agitated Loved One- stay 5 feet away so they can not hit you


PREVENTION IDEAS

Record episodes of agitation to determine when, why, and causes of the agitation

Remove people or objects that agitate your loved one

Simplify daily schedules to decrease confusion within the schedule

Decrease clutter in their living area



Recognizing Agitation in your Loved One with Dementia and in YOU!

Dementia Book Recommendations

The Diagnosis and Management of Agitation 1st Edition book


What can you do to increase YOUR level of patience to deal with a dementia person?

count to ten

don't react immediately

stay calm

smile

remember, you are in control

stay strong

be positive

Pray

Laugh




Can a dementia patient drive a car?

Argumentative Driving Discussion

According to "Dementia Home Care" by Tracy Cram Perkins

What to do when your dementia Loved one wants to drive but you believe is not capable to continue to drive:

  1. Explain that driving conditions are dangerous

  2. Drive them yourself

  3. Ask a friend to sit with your loved one in the back seat and keep them company while you drive

  4. Disable the car- We parked my dad's car in the driveway so he can see it but he can't start it. He has the keys in his pocket

  5. Convince him to allow one of the grandchildren to borrow the car

  6. Tell him he doesn't have car insurance right now





Is Dementia Caregiver Burnout Real?

Caregiver burnout is real

Dementia care for a loved one is exhausting

Get help

Go to doctor's appointment s

Watch your health

Go to the gym

Get exercise

Eat healthy choices

Talk to a friend

Live your life

Send him to a daycare for a break

Use the senior center for help

Go to church functions

Get some sun

Sit outside





Recognizing Agitation in your Loved One with Dementia and in YOU!



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Eating out with dementia
John and Dolores Quigley

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